The Benefits of Conflict

Most people have negative reactions to conflict.  We associate the word with fighting and arguing.  So, most of us to some degree are conflict averse.   That is, we try to avoid conflict when possible.  It makes us...

Suze Orman Recommends Collaborative Divorce

If there is any remaining doubt about the popularity of Collaborative Divorce, it should now be put to rest.  When Suze Orman and Oprah Magazine recommend it, it is officially mainstream.  Suze Orman is the Queen of smart money.  She knows a smart...

Marital Counseling Makes Cents

A common refrain that I hear from clients and social acquaintances is that they would have liked to try marital counseling before their separation or divorce, but they just could not afford it.  With the scope of health insurance coverage narrowing and the...